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date: 28 April 2025

Apology and Excuses 

  1. Beware of too much explaining, lest we end by too much excusing.
    Lord Acton 1834–1902 British historian: attributed by Acton to the Duc de Broglie, Lectures in Modern History (1906), lecture delivered Cambridge, June 1895
  2. Very sorry can't come. Lie follows by post.
    telegraphed message to the Prince of Wales, on being summoned to dine at the eleventh hour
    Lord Charles Beresford 1846–1919 British politician: Ralph Nevill The World of Fashion 1837–1922 (1923)
  3. Never make a defence or apology before you be accused.
    Charles I 1600–49 British monarch, King of England, Scotland, and Ireland from 1625: letter to Lord Wentworth, 3 September 1636, in Sir Charles Petrie (ed.) Letters of King Charles I (1935)
  4. Never complain and never explain.
    Benjamin Disraeli 1804–81 British Tory statesman and novelist; Prime Minister 1868, 1874–80: J. Morley Life of William Ewart Gladstone (1903) vol. 1; see Fisher
  5. To accuse requires less eloquence (such is man's nature) than to excuse.
    Thomas Hobbes 1588–1679 English philosopher: Leviathan (1651) pt. 2, ch. 19
  6. Never explain—your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway.
    Elbert Hubbard 1859–1915 American writer: The Motto Book (1907); see Disraeli, Wodehouse
  7. Several excuses are always less convincing than one.
    Aldous Huxley 1894–1963 English novelist: Point Counter Point (1928)
  8. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser to-day than he was yesterday.
    Alexander Pope 1688–1744 English poet: Miscellanies (1727) vol. 2 ‘Thoughts on Various Subjects’
  9. It is a good rule in life never to apologize. The right sort of people do not want apologies, and the wrong sort take a mean advantage of them.
    P. G. Wodehouse 1881–1975 English writer; an American citizen from 1955: The Man Upstairs (1914) title story; see Hubbard